I never wanted to replace her dad. I’m sorry he left, but I’ve been punished for so long for just showing up. Am I doing the right thing?
Here is the advice for Ben. What you’re going through is painful and complicated, and it’s okay to feel exhausted, hurt, and invisible sometimes.
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Don’t wait for her to acknowledge you. She may never thank you or recognize the love and effort you’ve put in. Expecting it can keep you stuck in pain.
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Focus on what you can control when you’re being unappreciated: your choices, your presence (even from afar), and protecting your own heart. You have to look out for yourself now.